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How empty nesters





                         can overcome




                                   boredom








            Raising children is a significant                children. So a renovation or
            responsibility. Parents know there’s            redesign can provide plenty
            no such thing as a day off, which               of work that can fill idle
            is why the first day they come                   time and instill a sense of
            home to an empty nest can be so                 excitement about the future.
            confounding.
                                                           Become a weekend road warrior.
            After roughly two busy and likely               Newly minted empty nesters
            hectic decades or more of looking               are likely still working full-time.
            after their children, parents whose             But now that there’s no soccer                 to share with others. But empty
            sons or daughters have left home                practices or band recitals taking              nesters who experience significant
            for the first time may experience                up valuable real estate on your                feelings of sadness and loneliness
            feelings of sadness and loss. That’s            weekend schedule, Saturdays                    are urged to speak with a health
            not unusual, as the Mayo Clinic                 and Sundays can provide perfect                care professional as well.
            notes it’s a phenomenon known as                opportunities to travel. Plan
            “empty nest syndrome.” Though it’s              routine weekend getaways,                     Replace kids’ activities with your
            not a clinical diagnosis, empty nest            choosing different locales for each            own. After years of toting kids
            syndrome can be a difficult hurdle to            trip. Visit a city one weekend and             from one extracurricular activity
            overcome, especially for parents who            devote a subsequent trip to the                to another, empty nesters can
            find themselves suddenly bored                   great outdoors.                                now do the same for themselves.
            after years of being so busy. Empty                                                            Visit local community centers and
            nesters looking to banish boredom              Reconnect with old friends. Some               libraries and ask about classes
            can consider these strategies.                  individuals experiencing empty
                                                            nest syndrome may be hesitant                  for adults. Many offer classes
             Give your home a new look.                    to admit they’re experiencing                  on everything from crafts to
              Parents go to great lengths to                feelings of sadness and loneliness.            sports. Adults also can research
              make their homes welcoming                    But a recent Sky Mobile study                  continuing education programs
       The Morning Call  Moms and dads often joke that,     England found that 47 percent                  if they’re interested in a career
                                                                                                           at local colleges and universities
              safe havens for their children.
                                                            of parents of teenagers in
                                                                                                           change or pursuing an advanced
                                                            were fretting about having an
              between play rooms and study
              areas, kids get the bulk of the
                                                            friends and fellow parents are
              real estate under their roofs. Now            empty nest. So it’s likely that old            degree for personal enrichment.
       |      that the children have moved out,             experiencing feelings associated               Newly minted empty nesters can
       2022, 24 July, Sunday  parents can take back that space  with empty nest syndrome.                  opportunity to engage in activities
                                                                                                           look at their empty nest as an
                                                            Reaching out to old friends is
              and refresh their homes. A home
                                                                                                           that pique their interests after
              that’s adapted for empty nesters
                                                            a great way to reconnect and
                                                                                                           years of catering to the needs and
                                                            can provide an outlet to discuss
              will look quite different from one
      16      designed for families with young              feelings parents might be hesitant             wants of their children.
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